Hi babes, I'm Nicola
I'm a woman who gives a f**k about women birthing things - and not just humans.
I give a f**k about them reconnecting inward, remembering who they are and reclaiming their power. I use a bunch of modalities, but mainly, my own intuition, guidance and business and marketing skills, when needed.
My Human Design stats:
Manifesting Generator, emotional authority, single definition, 4/6 profile and eight channels (EIGHT!)
I live my life in partnership with my menstrual cycle (amongst all the other rhythmic laws and cycles surrounding us).
I love communication and connection (Hello, Gemini and humans), I am obsessed with energy hygiene, plant medicine, Mumma Naitch and I love a good F -bomb (Mum already knows. She's used to it!).
I create ways for women to be their TRUE SELF(!), and if they have a business - how to manage and run that in also, by partnering with cycles, energy, human design and sprinkling that with a big bit of selfishness (in a good way!) and a treasure trove of ways to support themselves as and when the uncomfy upgrades beckon and natural and magical ammunition is needed!
During my 36 years on Mother Earth, I have had some big life experiences (thank you, Saturn return and some!) - in both my personal and professional life - that has shaped and taught me so much already. My personal ‘tool box’ has developed dramatically, and I integrate all of this into what I do with the beautiful women I work with!
10 Things You Might Not Know About Me
- I love food. All of the food. Food is medicine. Food is fun. Food is life!
- I have a dodgy accent ~ I'm a Londoner (who's been outta there for 12 years!) who spent seven years in Wellington, NZ and moved to The Netherlands in 2016. I look forward to the day I have a Dutch twang also!
- As a kid, I used to recreate the popular 90s show 'Gladiators' (even though the producers EXPLICITLY said not to). My Dad encouraged it, my sister ignored me, my Mum rolled her eyes and said, 'Oh, Nicola'.
- I had Hirschsprung disease when I was a baby and had part of my colon removed at Great Ormond Street Hospital. That hospital is incredible!
- I love Mother Nature and what she provides. She is the cheapest medicine - go be with her. Can I come with you?
- I live a wellness lifestyle, but I don't believe in restrictions. My Spanish grandmother used to say, 'Everything in moderation' Amen to that!
- I would rather listen to music than watch TV. Mainly so I can sing and dance around like a crazy woman.
- Herman/Herms/Hermie/Monnie boy is my love muffin. The yang to my yin. The cheese to my glass of red. You MAY catch a glimpse of him via my Instagram (much to his dislike!).
- I am a fur-Mumma to Coco and a bonus-Mumma to Hunter.
- Love is my foundation. Bringing it back to love is always my goal, even when it's tough. That shiz starts with you #UnapologeticallySELFISH
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![Sorry isn't the hardest word, actually, Elton. 👉🏼👉🏼👉🏼 It's actually ducking easy innit. Rolls off the tongue. #default #disclaimer #kneejerk Interrupt the narrative When we have to choose not to do something that we originally wanted or agreed to, our natural inclination is to spew sorry all over the place. Sorry, I'm late. Sorry for the late notice; I can't make it. Sorry, the dog shit the bed and then spewed on my homework. Sorry, I didn't put the washing on, I got so immersed in creation for work, and it slipped my mind. You get the drift. But are you truly sorry? Have you done something wrong? There are many, many moments and times when we have to choose ourselves instead of what we set out to do. Perhaps our needs changed. We over-committed or said yes when we meant no. Perhaps our energy is off, or we are on Day 27, and we feel like a bag of shit and don't want to do people. Perhaps we had to make a time-critical decision for our future, our family, or our business. Perhaps we changed, and so, therefore, things change and where we put our energy and alignment can't be compromised anymore. These perhapses might be on point, but the way we "create excuses" or use a default narrative isn't. Everything is a choice. Even the auto-response to say sorry. It's loaded and feels heavy. Both, as the "sorry" sayer and receiver. Next time you think about or say sorry off the cuff, stop and ask yourself - have I done anything wrong? Do I need to apologise? LADIES, THIS IS HAAAAUGE IN OUR CAMP! Ask yourself, how can I communicate my needs to the person I am changing plans with so that I don't feel heavy and receive honesty. Why not say something like: "Thank you for receiving this at late notice. I'm assuming you'll understand this (tell me if not - I'm open to hearing), but something has come up that is important to me/time-critical [insert here], and I have to miss our call/meeting/coffee. Can we rearrange to another time that suits?" We can exercise that choice, honesty and clear communication muscle anytime. CONT’D IN COMMENTS 👇🏼](https://nicolacloherty.com/wp-content/plugins/instagram-feed/img/placeholder.png)