Let me introduce you to the SELFISH. System - a five 'self' approach to becoming unapologetically selfish. I've put together a few ways for you to have a taste, dip both feet in, or deep-dive with me, to get #UnapologeticallySELFISH.
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Private 1:1 Coaching
I guide and mentor with women over a 3 or 6 month period to get, what I call, unapologetically selfish. Using the SELFISH. System, we bring more self-awareness, self-connection, self-nourishment, self-care and self-love into their lives. We reconnect you to you!
We dive into current lifestyle, struggles and desires. We look at who your soul is designed to be, in conjunction with your menstrual cycle and/or lunar cycle, and work on areas that need loving attention to live a life that is centred, aligned and in sync.
Mentorship includes: 1:1 virtual mentoring sessions, two short video courses with life-time access, consistent support throughout our time together and so much more.
Learn more about this Mentorship.
Business Energetics Mentorship
I work with women who run their own businesses, marrying best practice and energetics together.
Thanks to 15+ years of experience in business and marketing, years of cycle syncing, and a deep understanding of energy and Human Design, I use my expertise to consult, guide and mentor women on how to market and communicate their products and services in a soul-led, energetically correct and heart-centred way.
It was fascinating to gain a more in-depth understanding of the female cycle through The SELFISH. Project. So many of us (myself included) were unaware of how each of the phases affects our eating habits, moods and general overall wellbeing; and that the symptoms leading up to our menstrual cycle that society deems normal actually aren't! Nicola made the course easy to digest, by dropping snippets of information throughout which we could log in to and learn at our own pace, around our day. Highly recommend taking this course, a real eye-opener and a lovely teacher.
Lidi, UK
Online Programs
Tasters, mains and the three-course meals available! All designed to meet you where you're at, go at your pace, to have access from purchase and forevermore.
Join me to reconnect with yourself ~ your biology, natural cyclical nature, inherent energy ~ learning how your menstrual cycle works, create and birth things other than humans, and work on their passion projects and/or businesses with an energy-first approach. I have a bunch of ways to guide you to become the you, you already are.
~ The SELFISH. Project: SELFISH. Syncing
I joined Nicola’s SELFISH. event randomly through Facebook, and I am so glad I found her. She is such a fun and loving spirit! She deeply cares about health, conscious living and sharing that knowledge with others. I really enjoyed getting to know her.
Sasha, Amsterdam
Human Design Readings
Are you up for finding out who you really are and what you're on the planet to do? Good! Glad to hear it. I give you Human Design ~ at its core, Human Design is discovering what makes you, well, you.
Turns out there was a 'user guide' for you when you landed Earth-side. Also turns out we can loose sight and connection from this as the world and family and society moulds us out of our original shape. Fear not! With this incredible master system, I can help you unearth who you truly are - conscious and unconscious - and you can start living life in accordance to you, not your mum/sister/bestie/Sally from number 47.
Learn more about Human Design and investment.
Deep-Dive Session
Using your Human Design, intuition and cycle and natural rhythm awareness, we will look at your unique lifestyle and situation, and create a simple guide to live more in partnership with the natural cycles and your unique energy.
The Package
- In-depth intake form to maximise our time together
- A 90-minute virtual session to create a personalised plan
- Recording, follow up email and specific action steps
Investment: €295
doTERRA Essential Oils
These little bottles of Mother Nature's plant extracts changed my life, and they can do the same for you!
I dunno if you heard the word on the street, but plant medicine is the bomb. We can anchor into these tiny bottles of pure and potent essential oils for physical, emotional, energetic and spiritual support.
They don't just 'smell good'; they act as a guide to support and supplement our overall health and wellness.
Listen to the Podcast
Being SELFISH. is all about self-awareness, self-connection, self-nourishment, self-care and and self-love for ourselves, then others.
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“For me, nothing makes my heart more full than empowering others to live a life of their choosing - with love, balance and a bountiful tool box to help them do so .”
![Sorry isn't the hardest word, actually, Elton. 👉🏼👉🏼👉🏼 It's actually ducking easy innit. Rolls off the tongue. #default #disclaimer #kneejerk Interrupt the narrative When we have to choose not to do something that we originally wanted or agreed to, our natural inclination is to spew sorry all over the place. Sorry, I'm late. Sorry for the late notice; I can't make it. Sorry, the dog shit the bed and then spewed on my homework. Sorry, I didn't put the washing on, I got so immersed in creation for work, and it slipped my mind. You get the drift. But are you truly sorry? Have you done something wrong? There are many, many moments and times when we have to choose ourselves instead of what we set out to do. Perhaps our needs changed. We over-committed or said yes when we meant no. Perhaps our energy is off, or we are on Day 27, and we feel like a bag of shit and don't want to do people. Perhaps we had to make a time-critical decision for our future, our family, or our business. Perhaps we changed, and so, therefore, things change and where we put our energy and alignment can't be compromised anymore. These perhapses might be on point, but the way we "create excuses" or use a default narrative isn't. Everything is a choice. Even the auto-response to say sorry. It's loaded and feels heavy. Both, as the "sorry" sayer and receiver. Next time you think about or say sorry off the cuff, stop and ask yourself - have I done anything wrong? Do I need to apologise? LADIES, THIS IS HAAAAUGE IN OUR CAMP! Ask yourself, how can I communicate my needs to the person I am changing plans with so that I don't feel heavy and receive honesty. Why not say something like: "Thank you for receiving this at late notice. I'm assuming you'll understand this (tell me if not - I'm open to hearing), but something has come up that is important to me/time-critical [insert here], and I have to miss our call/meeting/coffee. Can we rearrange to another time that suits?" We can exercise that choice, honesty and clear communication muscle anytime. CONT’D IN COMMENTS 👇🏼](https://nicolacloherty.com/wp-content/plugins/instagram-feed/img/placeholder.png)
